Invitation
You’ve worked hard to build a life. You’ve handled responsibilities, met expectations, maybe even mastered the art of “being fine.” But somewhere inside, there’s a quiet voice wondering: What would it feel like to be truly present in my body? To know what kind of touch lights me up? To explore the edges of my curiosity without shame?
Maybe you’ve never felt fully at ease with touch. Maybe you’ve pushed aside your desires because they felt “too much” or “too strange.” Or maybe you’ve been so busy surviving that you never stopped to discover what actually feels good.
You don’t need to have it all figured out to begin. Here, you get to be exactly as you are—curious, nervous, even a little embarrassed—while I guide you toward connection, pleasure, and self-expression you didn’t know you could claim. And yes, we might explore techniques that are a bit edgy, a little unusual… and exactly what your body’s been waiting for.
Conscious Companion | Portland, OR | Casey Winslow
About Me
For years, I carried silent shame about my sensory needs, sexual desires, and emotional intensity. I hid them, managed them, tried to make myself “smaller” and “easier.” At my lowest, those coping strategies nearly ended my life.
It was through BDSM and sacred intimacy that I found my way back, learning that my body wasn’t my enemy, my desires weren’t wrong, and my voice deserved to be heard. That’s why I do this work now: to offer others what I wish I’d had, a safe, affirming place to explore without fear or judgment.
I’m a trained Sacred Intimate through the Body Electric School, have years of BDSM experience, and am currently pursuing a PhD in Human Sexuality Studies. My clients say I “see” them in a way few people do, and that they leave feeling more like themselves than they have in years.
Services
I offer:
- Tantric Massage – Awakening sensuality and presence through intentional, embodied touch.
- Intimacy Coaching (online & in-person) – Helping you explore desires, boundaries, and self-expression from anywhere.
- Custom Workshops – For individuals or small groups wanting to deepen erotic intelligence.
- Ritual Play Sessions – Guided exploration into kink, power dynamics, and erotic archetypes.
Sessions begin with a relaxed conversation about how you’re feeling, what’s alive for you, and any boundaries you’d like to set. If we venture into BDSM, we’ll discuss safewords and create an explicit container for exploration. My approach blends kink, tantra, and science-backed techniques, holding space for the release of shame, guilt, and grief.
For ongoing growth, I offer discounted 5-session packages for virtual coaching clients.

Next Steps
If you’re curious, let’s talk.
When you reach out, I’ll ask a few questions about your interests, and for an ID or legal name plus a registered phone number to ensure safety and trust.
Final Note
This work is sacred, but it’s also human, sometimes awkward, sometimes hilarious, often profoundly beautiful. You don’t have to be “ready.” You just have to be willing to start. And if you arrive feeling a little shy, I’ll take that as a good sign… it means something real is about to happen.
Testimonials
“Casey is different. For the first time in my life it felt like there was someone who was willing to listen and engage with the issue as I saw it. Without moralizing, Casey prompted me to do the work to understand the underlying issues… She never shied away from big emotions and helped me process difficult feelings even in a virtual setting.” – B
“I talked with Casey before the session and it was obvious that she had spent time creating a wonderful session for me… Her communication was outstanding, I’ve never had better.”
I’m Casey Winslow, a Conscious Companion, I welcome individuals of all genders and orientations, singles, couples and poly relationships.